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Hey lovely,
I'm not sure anyone becomes a specialist in conflict resolution without first avoiding conflict for a long time.
For most of my life I excelled at people pleasing and swallowing down my anger in a fight. I repeated the early patterns of conflict I was shown in my two marriages. I avoided, downplayed, and fixed everything I could.
But then, as a midwife, I began helping women navigate relationships, advocate for their needs, and learn how to communicate more productively. I started to make the connections between our need to be understood and how we are communicating that need.
As I stepped away from midwifery and into the next phase of life, I started to articulate the Fight Languages. Putting names to the people I had been helping for years.
My hope is that the Fight Languages will help you find more understanding and connection in your life - most especially to yourself. Cheers to making the world a little kinder with me.
how I got here
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midwife
For over a decade I worked as a midwife, owning 3 birth centers. I was driven to empower women as they advocated for themselves in major transitions.
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explorer
Deep in burnout and divorce, I brought the wisdom from every birth room to my own personal rebirth. Bringing understanding about our internal conflict.
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guide
The culmination has been a new framework for conflict. Understanding ourselves and others through the Fight Languages.
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Professional Bio
The biggest gift we can give ourselves is to feel understood.
Lena Morgan began her career as a midwife and for over a decade she helped people communicate their needs effectively, especially in high stress situations. Pulling from this, she developed the Fight Languages; a radical conflict solution. Her work is helping individuals, partnerships, organizations, and businesses develop more understanding and connection. You can learn more about her work at fightlanguages.com